How much patience you have,
for instance.
I'll post some more when I get the chance but for now I need to clean the house first :] [fun fun not really :p lolx ]
Camera ....Lights..... Action!
I think life is like a movie, people are all lead actors and actress in their own lives in this world, it's a never ending movie coz as long as we're alive the film keeps on rolling. We are our own scriptwriters as well since life is what we make it, and sometimes surprising situation happens or appears in the middle of the scene, it might be comedy, horror, suspense or drama. Funny isn't it? but I guess it's true well more of I think it's true.
Some people have the same story plot going on in their life story but most are not, some are interesting and some are just plain boring. I guess for the boring one's they should spice it up a little, and some are too much interesting that it's kinda scary and needs to slow it down a little bit, but for some their life plot is just a perfect timing.. not too much and not too little interesting.
But what's really the difference between real life movie and movies shown in theater? Well real life movie I say, the script is always written on the spot as the film rolls on and the lights are all on and everything is saved on other people's memories including yours, and if something went wrong or messed up in the middle of the scene you can't turn back and edit it. Well I guess I don't need to explain more about the difference, It's just the reality and the fake.
An article i wrote back on myspace
[Thursday, November 24, 2005]
.. i thought i'ma share it here ...
comment anyone?? :P
Significant Messages
Some of the most significant messages people deliver to one another often come in just three words. When spoken or conveyed, those statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.
I'LL BE THERE.
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give.When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and to us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there' is at the very core of civility.
I MISS YOU.
Perhaps more marriages could be salvaged and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other, "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
I RESPECT YOU.
Respect is another way of showing love.
Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal.
It is a powerful way to affirm the importance of a relationship.
MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT.
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side of "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting "maybe I'm wrong."
PLEASE FORGIVE ME.
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
I THANK YOU.
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy.
People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is
severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
COUNT ON ME.
"A friend is one who walks in when others walk out," observes Walter Winchell. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those who are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there, indicating "you can count on me."
LET ME HELP.
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
I UNDERSTAND YOU.
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting other people know in so many little ways that you understand him or her is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship.
GO FOR IT.
Some of your friends may be nonconformists, have unique projects and unusual hobbies. Support them in pursuing their interests. "Rather than urging your loved ones to conform, encourage their uniqueness. Everyone has dreams that no one else has, and through them can make yourself loved by encouraging those aspirations," says Dr. Alan Loy McGinnis, author of the book The Friendship Factor.
I suppose the 3 little words that I was expecting to see have to be reserved for those who are special; that is I LOVE YOU. Have a great day loving yourself and loving your love ones!